Friday, March 27, 2015

Chalice Circle Topic for April 2015


Redemption
By Crystal Neva, Adaptation and Story from, Karen Hering and her prompts in Writing to Wake the Soul: Opening the Sacred Conversation Within

Note: See the Chalice Circle Session Sequence for process guidelines

Gathering, Welcoming (2 minutes)

Business
As needed—checking in about who is coming, where you are meeting, service projects, updating your group covenant….

Chalice Lighting and Reading (2-3 minutes)

God entrusts and allots to everyone an area to redeem:
this creased and feeble life, “the world in which you live,
 just as it is, and not otherwise.”—Annie Dillard quoting Martin Buber

May the spark we ignite today inspire us to redeem our areas, our lives.

Check-in/Sharing (3-4 minutes@ - 30-40 minutes)
This is an opportunity to share recent events and/or current feelings that may (or may not) need to be set aside in order to be most present for the session.

Transition Meditation (optional, depending on the norms of the group—suggested meditation is at the end of this session plan)
Help the group move from check-in preliminaries to silence with directed deep breathing, soft words, music, or other meditative techniques.

Topic—Redemption
Although religious usage of the word redemption may be wanting in some circles, the word has been widely adopted by secular cultural critics today, who frequently describe literature, films, and theater productions as having a redemptive message. What do you suppose they mean?

A story from Naomi Shihab Nye suggests one answer. A Palestinian American, Nye was traveling in the United States some time after the September 11 attacks, waiting in the Albuquerque airport after learning her flight had been delayed several hours. Among the airport’s prerecorded messages about heightened security alerts and the need for passenger vigilance and suspicion, she heard another announcement asking anyone who understood Arabic to please come to gate A-4, which happened to be her gate.

Arriving at the gate, she found an older woman in Palestinian dress weeping on the floor and an airline service person helplessly standing by, unable to communicate. In faltering Arabic, Nye first explained to the woman that their flight had not been cancelled, just delayed. Then the two of them began to pass the time by making phone calls to their family members on Mye’s cell phone and introducing each other to the loved ones on the other end. They told their stories to each other, laughing together, with infectious results at the gate. When the woman opened a bag of homemade cookies she was carrying and passed them around, powdered sugar landing on everyone’s laps, the airline’s staff enlisted two young girls to hand out apple juice. And looking around the waiting area at Gate A-4 that day, Nye noticed that everyone had taken the cookies and no one looked apprehensive anymore about anyone else. “This can happen anywhere,” Nye asserted. “Not everything is lost.”

Redemption, it seems to me, happens in this story because the ending opens into possibilities not easily foreseen in the beginning. And like this story, redemption can occur anywhere and anytime we live through stories of our own that might begin with apprehension of one form or another; with long, unbearable waiting; or with strangers in cold, impersonal settings. And then, often starting with some small act of kindness, the stories open up into a different, wider narrative, where trust and new relationships are again made possible and real.

Deep Sharing/Deep Listening (60 minutes)
As we begin Deep Sharing and Deep Listening, I invite you to reflect on the ways in which your life is being redeemed day by day—the small, unexpected moments of redemption. Here are some questions to consider:
·      What does the word redemption mean to you?
·      If, as Nye said, “Not everything is lost” then what remains—what good exists when things seem bleak?
·      Do you have a story of redemption that you would like to share?
·      Whom or what are you indebted to—how do you redeem yourself?
·      What imprisons you—how do you free yourself?
·      How is your life being redeemed today?

Open Discussion (as time permits—this is the cross talk portion)
This is the opportunity to ask questions, and continue to engage the topic….

Check-out/Feedback  (10 minutes)
Thank the group.   Ask what they liked in this session and what changes they would hope for.

Closing Reading/Extinguishing the Chalice
Excerpt from “Ordinary Time” by Tim Dlugos—writing about recovery from addiction
Which are the magic
moments in ordinary
time? All of them,
for those who can see.
That is what redemption
means, I decide
at the meeting.

Mine consists of understanding
that the magic isn’t something
that I make, but something
that shines through the things
I make and do and say

When I am fearless and thorough
enough to give it room


Meditation: Peace
Take a moment to make sure you are comfortable
Uncross your legs and arms
Place both feet flat on the floor
Close your eyes and
Take a deep breath in and let it go
Take another deep breath and let it go
Breathe-in slowly.  Breathe-out gently. 
As you breathe, allow your body to just let go.
Allow your mind to be peaceful and relaxed.
Now I am going to give you some simple instructions
Breathe in and on the out breath, Say silently - Peace to my thoughts
Breathe in and on the out breath, Say silently - Peace to my heart
So it goes like this
Breathe in Breathe out - Peace to my thoughts
Breathe in Breathe out - Peace to my heart
Breathe in Breathe out - Peace to my thoughts
Breathe in Breathe out - Peace to my heart
Breathe in Peace to my thoughts
Breathe in Peace to my heart
Breathe in Peace to my thoughts
Breathe in Peace to my heart
Now let’s simplify it
Breathe in peace Breathe out love
Breathe in peace Breathe out love
Breathe in peace Breathe out love
Feel peace enter and fill you completely
Feel love flow through you and from you
Become peace
Become love
Become
Breathe in
Breathe out
Take a deep breath in and let it go.
Come gently back into this room
Bringing the love and peace with you
as you slowly open your eyes